Nandini Nayar
January 25, 2021
Final Verdict

About the Author

Living in Hyderabad, Nandini Nayar is known for her contribution to children’s literature. She has written about 300 short stories and 55 books for children, like The Diary of an Indian Schoolgirl series, The Curious Case of The Sweet and Spicy Sweet Shop and more. She has also contributed to the syllabus of English in schools and university textbooks. She has been passionately writing for the past 21 years! 
Other Works By Nandini Nayar
Where is Amma?
Living With the Ghost
The Story School
Mommy was a Little Girl

Sometimes Mama, Sometimes Papa

Written By Nandini Nayar, Illustrated by Upamanyu Bhattacharyya

Right from the time of birth, the life of a child situates around the two most important people – Mama and Papa. Sometimes, it is Mama who does things for the child and sometimes it is Papa who does everything possible under the sun to see the child smile. However, in Nandini Nayar’s Sometimes Mama, Sometimes Papa (Puffin, 2021), there is a small difference, which is that the parents do not live together anymore. The new picture book, with beautiful illustrations, shows the perspective of a child after her parents are separated. Now, the child has two homes, and two schedules. 

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Divorce from a Child’s Perspective

Introducing the topic of divorce in a children’s book is a tough task. What is brilliant about the author, though, is the manner in which she has dealt with the topic. In the picture book, the reader doesn’t encounter even for once the dreaded word ‘divorce’. Hence, we know that Nandini Nayar has dealt with the separation very delicately. 

An interesting aspect of the perspective of divorce is that the child when stating that her parents aren’t together, doesn’t seem totally depressed by the fact. She has, in fact, adapted to her new dual lifestyle in a very good way. In doing so, Nandini Nayar has given an original take on the idea of divorce. It is not always necessary that the divorce has to be something traumatic for the child, and it’s a helpful reminder that children will internalize everything we teach them – it is often our own awkwardness that rubs off on them.

Keya talks optimistically about having two homes. She says that in every sphere of life, be it in reading stories, giving her lunch, or going to her parent-teacher meetings, it is “sometimes mama, sometimes papa”.  The parents show a degree of cordiality with each other when they meet at Keya’s annual function or when Keya is hurt in school. In spite of their separation, it is crucial to observe that the parents divide all tasks relating to their child equally amongst themselves. So, if “Mama drove them home”, “Papa held Keya on his lap”.

About the visuals of Sometimes Mama, Sometimes Papa

As a picture book, a big chunk of the story is made by its illustrations, which are pleasing, watercolour sketches that capture the mood deftly, without unnecessary embellishments and minimal background clutter. The colour scheme, a range of pastels, moves from cool, to hot, to warm. It establishes a unity, like a story, appearing as one even when representing twos.

Best Quotes

“And Keya’s smile was big enough for both of them – her mama and her papa.”


Sometimes Mama, Sometimes Papa presents a beautiful and optimistic view of separation. It shows how a divorce can be an affair without trauma or unhappiness and comes as a breath of fresh air in a culture that treats separation as a scandal and taboo. It does without ignoring the reality of the society we live in, and that is its winning moment. Nayar enters the mind of a child and beautifully captures her moments of doubt, confusion, and immense love for her parents. 

Ilona Dam

Ilona Dam

A writer by profession, I’m an avid reader and and an insane foodie! However, come what may, my books will always remain my first and only true love.

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